Hmmmm, Great question, we've been really greedy over the years, (Swinging is very addictive in the early years) but as with all things, you calm down, and start to enjoy quality over quantity, and then as time goes on, you really get picky, as after many sexy meetings, you've now acquired specific tastes and skills, that (
as a couple) really hit both of your sexy spots. So for us, we no longer really plan anything, but meet many people whilst they are on holidays here (and not all of them swingers) and if we get on well, gel with humour, and have an attraction as well, then spontaneity takes its course/or not, but either way, the friend's we make now, last, rather than disappear after a few months and never to be heard of again.....
So for us nature and spontaneity takes its course, be it only once a month, or a few times a year....
The-A-Team